Monday, May 7, 2012

Party Party Broke... Or not


Today I am looking for the best birthday party arrangement at the best price. I compare Hedgehog Lane, Jimmy Jungles, Kinglets and Queenies, Build-A-Bear Workshop as well as a home party with Crazy Chameleon.

How my head works

I have just become a mom... well 5 months ago and already I am trying to investigate birthday party options, you know, so that I am prepared for the next 6 years.

I can already see this scenario: It is coming up to her sixth birthday and she will request to have a party – just like all her friends. She wants to spend the day with her best friends and now I have to find the best way to have this party, without breaking the the bank or messing up my house.

I ask her to tell me what she would like to do for her birthday and she says she wants it to be “fashionable” and pink. I also ask if she would prefer it inside or outside, and she says she does not mind as long as it doesn’t rain.

So given that this birthday party will happen in summer and in Johannesburg, we are never guaranteed that the weather will be perfect, so my objective is to find a venue where we’ll be protected from the elements.

So, being the person that I am, I have done my due diligence and I received quotes for 5 different parties, and being a working mom – I needed to ensure that everything could be taken care of, without me being around.

Here is what I found:

Hedgehog Lane


This is an outside venue that has themed areas so that it can accommodate various parties. The website looks quite festive and safe and so I had to determine what price we were looking at. I could only book the venue for 2.5 hours, and I had to pay a non refundable booking fee of R450. To hire the venue for 2.5 hours was R1250 plus an additional R60 per child.

For that I got some basic sweets and snacks for the kids, a balloon for each child, and a visit from the mascot . The challenge with this is that, because of the short time frame, the other kids moms or dads had to come along, because it was not worth their while dropping off their children, only to come back shortly afterwards. The children also needed to eat and even though they don’t eat as much as their parents, they definitely want options.

I was concerned that the children may get a little bored, so I saw that there were a variety of entertainment options available to me. I would definitely need someone to help me on the day – I wanted to take photos and make idle chit chat with the other parents... and as I looked down the list, I had the option of a hostess, at an extra cost... of course.

The cake was another consideration, and guaranteed it will have to be a 3D princess cake.

All in all the greatest 2.5 hours of my child’s birthday weekend would end up costing me in the region of R6150. Eish...

Jimmy Jungles


A friend of mine has a 3 year old and she suggested that we go to Jimmy Jungles because at R95 per child, I would get a cake, party packs, balloons, and a 2 hour gift card for my child to use at a later date. I read on... Jimmy Jungles is not suitable for children older than 3 years old.

Oh well.

Kinglets & Queenies


This is an outdoor venue based in Ruimsig. They have various areas and multiple parties can take place at the same time. My concern is losing children in a venue like this.

The venue is very beautiful, but because it is outdoors, they have created thatched bomas so that if the weather is bad the party can at least have some shelter. In my world, nasty weather generally puts a dampener on the day. The more I research this, the more I think I moving away from the idea of having the party outdoors.

The cool thing about this venue is that they will decorate it for you for an additional R700 over and above the hire fee of R1100. Again this venue is only available for 3 hours at a time but this venue has jungle gyms, jumping castles and trampolines. This is pretty fantastic, no additional entertainment required – however, I think I will organise a waterslide, just in case.

And event organiser (ensuring I stress less) costs R400. So it is just the food that I need to consider.

All in all, R5830 is what I am looking at providing okay so this is 5% cheaper...

The Home Party with Crazy Chameleon


All of this is beginning to look a little expensive, and so I am beginning to consider a home party once again. However, my garden really isn’t conducive to having 10 little girls running a mock. My aunt has gladly agreed to letting me use her garden (what if they break something – I could never replace some of those relics)...

I called Crazy Chameleon to see what they could organise. It turns out, they could provide food, entertainment (jumping castle) and party favours for R3560. I would have to provide juices and refreshments for the adults; I could give my 15 year old niece R300 to supervise the children. If this was the way I was going to go, I would have to pay for a cleaning company to clean up my aunt’s house and garden. That was at least another R400.

Total cost: R4260 - 27% better but still not ideal.

It seems that the extra parent cost is a huge factor. The ideal thing for me would be to do a party where parents were not involved.

Build-A-Bear Workshop


Child Mag often runs adverts for Build-A-Bear Workshop’s Build-A-Party concept. My immediate reaction was that there is no way I can afford to do this for my daughter and her friends. I hear of parent been begged to take their kids there and I have heard stories of how much it cost. I phoned for a quote anyway.

The party happens inside the store, they clear an area for the children – this means, rain or shine the party will be awesome. I was pleasantly surprised when the “Party Bear” told me that all have to pay for is the merchandise that the children take home with them. My booking will get a dedicated party leader, Bella will receive an “autograph” bear for free and every child will receive a bear and a balloon at the end of the experience. One of the two mascots will visit the party and give the children hugs.

She sent me a few options in terms of the merchandise. Bears start at R89 including the stuffing and the heart the birth certificate and the "house" that the bear goes home in. T-shirts are around R60 and a full outfit starts at R110. Shoes are about R80. My concern was, if I let 10 6 year old girls run wild in the shop dressing their bears, I may have a heart attack when I see the bill. The party bear assured me that I could give them a budget, and they would pre-select items within the budget and manage it that way.

I sat and did my sums... for 10 children, this meant:

10 bears = R890

10 outfits = R1100

10 shoes = R890

Total Bear Cost: R2880

I phoned back and I asked, what about the food. The party bear explained that they did not allow food in the stores but if I wanted to, I could bring party packs and cupcakes into the store, and they would hand it out as the children leave the store. FAB-U-LOUS idea... and the best part... No parents to entertain! They can go walk around Sandton City for 2 hours while the children are entertained by making “princess” bears. And they have an endless array of pink fashionable clothing.

Total cost: R3160 – which is completely reasonable and more than 25% cheaper than any other option available.

To party or not to party

So if you are planning a party - this will probably help you make a decision. For me - Build-A-Bear Workshop makes the most sense. It is a 40 minute party where the kids have a ball  making their own best friend. My job? Taking photographs and enjoying the smiles...

Friday, May 4, 2012

The Nappie Analysis


This time last year - I was blissfully unaware that I was about 8 weeks pregnant. I found out around the 25th of May when I was 10 weeks along. Naturally when you hear that you are pregnant - you start to think (and my father reminded me)... How am I going to cope with all of the costs associated with a baby? Here are some tips...

Know what you are shopping for

What I tried to do was research how many nappies my child would need from birth to toilet trained. In this way I could start to incorporate the cost of the nappies by buying a bag of nappies with every grocery shop, while ensuring I was getting enough of each size. My research also showed me which nappies were the cheapest.

I looked at what the average weight milestones are (for girls) at each month. The average daily consumption I found by looking at forums and asking moms. I then worked out how many nappies I would need for the month and then worked back to how many packs of nappies it would be as well as the cost per pack. I could also establish how many packs of each size I would need.

Below are the tables for 3 top brands in South Africa:




 Can you guess which brand was cheaper, overall? Look at the graphs below:




Interestingly - many "mommy forums" have a topic "Which brand of diaper do you prefer" 9 out 10 moms said Pampers... for the following reasons:

  • They fit better
  • They don't leak
  • My baby never gets a nappy rash

I think that it is because they are the cheapest brand on the market.

I hear you asking me - so how accurate has your analysis been? Well - the number of nappies you go through at the various milestones is accurate but my baby grew at a rate of 500g per week. (Breast fed baby). I knew she was going to be a big baby - but I had no clue that she would literally grow out of the size 2 nappies in under a month... so although the theory is sound, in reality - keep all of your slips. I had to enter into major negotiations with in-ept managers to exchange my nappies for bigger sizes.

The other challenge with this analysis is that I enrolled my daughter into a school where for the school fee of R2450 per month, they supply all the toiletries for Peyton. This means that I do not go through my stock of nappies as quickly as anticipated in the analysis... so I had to negotiate to get shopping vouchers in exchange for the nappies so that I could buy the required size as needed.

You can use this or not - but it opened my eyes to terms of how much nappies cost! But there are ways to ensure that you absorb the cost:

1. If you know your baby is growing at an average rate during your pregnancy you can use this analysis as a guide to purchase nappies each month to create a stockpile (but keep your shopping slips - the store has to exchange the items according to the CPA if you have a slip)
2. Ask people to provide nappies as gifts at your baby shower - specify sizes (also ask for a slip)
3. Find a creche like mine...